Mommy and son , no hay una satisfacción más grande que saber de que hasta haora dios me a dado la fuerzas la vida y la sabiduría para protegerte y guiarte por el buen camino mi Chikito hermoso !! #mamybear#overprotectivemom
Current situation with little Noah. First let me tell you he got his Spider-Man costume and all he wants to do is wear it everyday, so he put it on and He ended up fracturing his pinky last night running around and fell on his pinky 😞
Thank you all for your messages. He’s doing better.... but somehow he won’t stop jumping around lol. I guess it’s a good thing but I’m more afraid than him that he’s going to get hurt again 🤦🏻♀️ #mom#momlife#son#monkey#spiderman#overprotectivemom
Did u guys know what does #helicoptereela stands for?
As a mother, you do everything to keep your child happy, healthy and safe.
But gradually taking charge of each n every decision of his, n rushing in to protect him from every little mistake, disappointments or harm results in Overparenting also called as 'Helicopter parenting'. These parents have a hard time letting go, are constantly intervening, n won't let kids make their own mistakes.
As these parents become the cushion between themselves and the world, the kids may feel overly frustrated while facing any obstacle. And suddenly some years later these spoon-fed kids are thrown into a situation where they are expected to behave like adults and take responsibility for their own decisions and actions.
So mummas n papas take a step back, give your kid the wings to fly and watch him soar.
Let them feel the power of responsibility, teach them to make choices, allow them to solve problems, n thereby let them embody the powerful feeling of 'I can' which will pave the way for ur kid to playfully discover their own identity.
First day back at work ✔️.
Not gonna lie, spent more than half the day missing my baby and watching the nanny cam 🤷♀️. Excited yet so nervous for this new stage. I know overall it’ll be good for both Jannette and I-but gosh is it hard to be away from her yummy cheeks for so long.
@sirnathan26 I love you and respect you for being able to go to work every day & totally understand why you literally devour her when you get home.
Anyway, here’s my fave pic from when we took Jannette apple picking a few weeks ago 💗
78312:45 AM Oct 10, 2018
"My parents are super....I wouldn’t say hands off, because they were parents. They were there and they were very supportive and very active in raising me...but they never really overdramatized what having sex was like. They were never like, "You’re not allowed to have sex with your boyfriend." In fact my mom was always like, "If you ever have a boyfriend, be safe because you don’t want to do things you’re not prepared for."
I think because they were so lax about it, sex was never a big deal to me. I know lots of friends who grew up in a bubble and they had very overprotective parents. Because sex felt so forbidden and wrong, they wanted to have sex right away once they knew what it was. I have one or two friends who said they felt like they had sex way too early and it was just because they felt that social pressure or they went to Catholic schools or had religious parents.
So to me, it was a good thing to have parents who were very sex positive because I never felt like I was in a rush to do it. I still haven’t had sex yet and I feel like when I do, I’m not going to regret it. At the end of the day, it hurts the person more to feel like it is a wrong immoral thing because most people eventually have sex and it is just a natural thing but you’re programmed to think that it is a wrong thing."
Went to see my mom in my old neighborhood, looking at my son run up and down the block for hours like I use to do, brought back a lot of great memories. I miss that familiarity growing up in the hood ....Also it’s crazy as a mom I think of all the dangerous things that could possibly happen 🙄 #daheights#growinguphood#overprotectivemom#heismyeverything
I am the first to admit I'm a huge and I mean huge worrier or helecopter parent expecially when It comes to my daughter and her safety and sometimes I may seem a little overboard to some people and their personal opinions on what I don't want her getting into or who she's around I like to be by her side at all times even when she is with people I trust it just makes me feel better but I will never change the way I mom because it is the way I believe is the safest and best for my baby girl! others have their own opinions and that's their own I'm sick of hearing oh it won't hurt her or ahh she'll be fine or oh she's spoiled isn't she! I will spoil and keep her safe as long as I possiblly can because it is how I want to do for her expecially since she is still so young and someday she will have to protect herself and make her own decisions I understand that but if I can prevent her from getting hurt or from eating something she doesn't need to have them im going to so BACK OFF AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS is what I want to say to a lot of people but I'm not one that stands my ground or says stuff because I hate upsetting people or making them mad well I'm not bending or keeping quiet or shying away anymore mama bear is going to come out if you push my buttons anymore!!! #tiredofothersinput#mamabear#letmemom#helicoptermomforlife#rantingmom#overprotectivemom it's not a bad thing!!! In my eyes
När ryggsäcken från morfar köpt i Filippinerna har för vassa hängen till dragkedjan. 🔥🔥🔥BURN THAT SHIIII!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Haha skoja! 😂
Knöt med sidenband och stora kulor från pyssellådan. Drog fram limpistolen över det vassa partierna under banden också för säkerhets skull 👍 we good
Where are all the over protective mamas??? 🙊🙋🏻♀️ Lately I’ve been trying to be less of a helicopter parent & let her figure things out on her own. Max & Ellie went on an adventure yesterday and he showed me this pic. My eye literally twitched. SHE COULD HAVE FALLEN IN the 5mm of water below her 😰 broken an arm, got a scrape or bruise. Then I was reminded that this is what I am working on, letting her figure out boundaries, being there if she falls and helping her try again. My little bush baby 🌿🌿🌿
And he’s a big kid.... today was Jackson’s first day of preschool… Even though it was only orientation, mom only cried three times. I’m kind of proud of myself. I was thinking be way more... lmao. First day is Thursday. I think I’ll double that number if I can actually make it out the door. #preschool#overprotectivemom#mommasboy#toddler#stopgrowing#myluv
I never really had a chance. Unwavering overprotection runs deep on all sides of my family. My great grandmother was only allowed to wear one roller skate at a time until she was 12.
In my family, we were told you could die doing anything. “Stop jumping on the bed! You’re going to fall off, break your neck, and die!” “Do not put those marbles anywhere near your mouth! You could choke on them, and die!” “Don’t turn the page of that book so fast! You could get a paper cut, it could get infected, and then you’ll die!” It’s no secret that this is also my parenting style. Everything terrifies me to my very core, and in a way that’s super unhealthy. If I knew we were taking our kids swimming the next day, I would stay awake all night, stressed about the terrors of drowning. Crazy, right?! Then something BIG happened. Something I wasn’t able to protect my child from. Piet was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at 21 months old. There was literally nothing I could have done differently or protected him in any way. It was just his destiny.
I was forced to loosen my grip. I took on a brand new outlook on life, and started practicing cleansing breaths. If my son was going to have a chronic illness and there was nothing I could have done to stop it, then I just needed to let my kids enjoy life.
There is no way I could have maintained my over-the-top overprotection AND managed type 1, so something had to go or I would absolutely go mad. Of course, I’m still a little crazy. No one is allowed to jump on beds, play with marbles, or vigorously turn pages… But, maybe someday kids. #type1tuesday
1231510:50 AM Sep 4, 2018
Here’s a PSA about 🐶 and 🐸: frogs/toads can be poisonous & actually deadly to dogs! Yesterday Grandpa caught Rusty with a frog- luckily he wasn’t eating it. He just licked it... Toads secrete a mucus that is foul tasting to dogs. If your dogs licks/bites one, you might see them shake their head/gag/spit up/vomit. You should rinse their mouth with water, but be careful that they don’t swallow it. And keep watch for any unusual behavior, like loss of coordination, brick red gums, dilated pupils, convulsions, or vomiting. And it’s always a safe bet to call the vet 👩🏽⚕️ and look this up for yourself! I had no idea that this was dangerous for dogs!! Learn something new everyday #overprotectivemom#lovemykids#rustysalwayshunting#evenfrogs#irishsetter#goldenretriever#dogstagram
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Happy birthday to the most beautiful, aggressive, stoopit, smart?, bubble butted wife/best friend/girlfriend/sister/mom who has handled and raised me for 5 years without complaining and has pinched me till I screamed and everyone thinks I'm being.....well,Anyways to the cheesy part this bich has heard me cry, cried with me, cried for me and cheered and consoled me by telling me dolan-sexual-stories (really makes me happy), she has always listenend to me and my bullshit about my crushes, she is always overprotective about me , saved me from bad boys , but at the end of the day I'm stuck with you and your stuck with me and there is nothing you can do about it, just don’t pinch me man it hurts...still love you tho